Here's what nobody tells you about getting older and pleasure
Lubrication changes. This is not a sign that pleasure ends. It's a sign that your approach needs to shift, and honestly, that shift often leads somewhere better. When vaginal lubrication decreases with age—whether from hormonal changes, medication, or just how your body evolved—friction becomes the enemy. But friction is optional. Sensation is not.
I've worked with hundreds of people navigating this transition, and the ones who struggled most weren't the ones dealing with the physical change itself. They were the ones who kept using the same technique, the same pressure, the same assumption that